Why Care at All?
I love the analogy of the “dead fish”. In essence, the idea is that those who go through life without purpose or intention are akin to a dead fish. They…
In our journey from busyness to intentional prioritization, we have navigated the empowering shift of saying “no” or “that is not a priority for me right now, thank you” and the hidden dangers of misusing our prioritized choices.
Now, in the third and final part of our series, we explore the power of Communal Reflection, particularly within the context of Forge cohorts. This article explores how dedicating a seemingly small fraction of our day to intentional communal interactions can yield profound benefits for both individual growth and collective wisdom.
On average, dedicating 15-20 minutes a day – roughly 1% of my time – to engaging with my Forge cohort has become a pivotal part of my daily rhythm. Some days, it is a brief 5-minute check-in, meeting the minimum contribution standard. Other days, it expands into rich, 60-90 minute discussions, filled with depth and insight. Yet, regardless of the duration, each interaction serves as an intentional pause, a moment of introspection and development of thought that I have deemed crucial for my own growth.
As I engage with my Forge brothers, reading their insights and reflecting upon my own experiences, I experience a dual benefit. First, there is a profound sense of introspection and thought development for me personally. This process of articulating my thoughts and experiences clearly to my Forge not only helps refine my understanding but also solidifies my learnings and ability to communicate clearly.
The act of articulating these thoughts to my Forge is more than just sharing – it is a form of mental and emotional alchemy. Transforming ill-formed internal musings into coherent, articulate expressions is a skill that benefits not just the individual but the entire group.
Beyond personal reflection, there is the invaluable benefit of receiving feedback from those I trust. This feedback loop, a mix of personal introspection and communal response, creates a rich melting pot of shared wisdom and mutual growth. It is a cycle where my reflections contribute to the Forge, and their insights, in turn, enrich my understanding and perspectives.
This intentional practice of communal reflection, though just 1% of my day, stands as one of the most significant investments in my personal and communal development. It is a deliberate choice, prioritizing not just self-growth but also contributing to the growth of others.
As we conclude this series, let is recognize the immense value of communal reflection, particularly in settings like the WayMaker Community and our Forge cohorts. It is a testament to the fact that when we prioritize not just our individual journey but also our collective wisdom, we unlock a level of introspection and communal growth that is immeasurably enriching. This practice, though a small fraction of our day, is a cornerstone in the architecture of a life lived intentionally and in harmony with others. Thus significantly enhancing my mental wellbeing, quality of thought, and feeling of connectedness with those I love.
In all of this, the question is not how can I afford to prioritize this, but rather, how can I afford not to?
