You Are Your Own Jailer

Time to stop rattling a door that was never locked.

## The Question

Why do you complain so loudly about the chains that bind you, when you are the one holding the keys?

## The Thought

There are two kinds of prisoners.
The first is held by walls he cannot break. Real bars. Real locks. A captivity imposed from the outside.
The second holds the key himself. The door is unlocked. It has always been unlocked. And still he stays, gripping the bars, telling anyone who will listen how unfair his confinement is.
Most of us are the second prisoner. The job we will not leave. The conversation we will not start. The boundary we will not draw. The standard we will not raise. We call it circumstance. We call it timing. We call it everyone else.
It is none of those things. It is a key, warm from sitting in your pocket, untouched because the cage has become comfortable. Familiar walls feel safer than open ground. The complaint costs less than the courage to walk out.
Here is the hard truth. A chain you can unlock is not a chain. It is a choice wearing the costume of a chain. And every day you perform the imprisonment, you train yourself in helplessness. You rehearse it until it hardens into character.
Sovereignty does not begin by breaking down walls. It begins with the humbling admission that the door was open the whole time.
Stop describing the cage. Reach into your pocket. Turn the key.

## Put It Into Action

This week, run a Key Audit. Find one cage you have been describing instead of leaving.

- Name the chain you complain about most. Say it out loud. The job, the relationship, the standard, the silence.
- Find the key. Ask the question you keep dodging: what is the one action, fully within my power, that I refuse to take?
- Turn it this week. Not next quarter. Take the single thing you have called impossible, and watch the lock give.
- Freedom is rarely granted. It is claimed by the one willing to admit the door was never locked.

*Someone you know has been rattling the same door for years, certain it is locked. Send them this. It might be the day they check their pocket.*

Forge Forward,
Jon Mayo